9 Reasons Its So Hard To Find A Good Man
The second biggest reason guys can’t get a girlfriend is anxiety. I say this because guys should continue flirting with their girlfriends and wives even when they’re deep into a relationship. A little flirtation spices things up and keeps the spark alive, making attraction and sexual desire last.
Almost 50 and been married, in 2 other long-term relationships, rarely just ‘dated’ a woman, and truly discovered… THERE’S NO WOMAN FOR ME. I think it’d be better if I just focus on myself and forget about women altogther. I think you’re extremely professional and you really hit home with a LOT of these points and if i ever had somebody interest in a Love Coach I would 100% send them YOUR way. You are the real deal so thank you for this work and I appreciate your work. I just hate so very much being a single man today since i wasn’t that lucky and blessed enough to meet a really good woman to settle down with. If there is a well-established relationship but her lifestyle isn’t something that you can agree with, then I suggest giving her the opportunity to change.
Heck, the store itself seems to have a lot of guys around my age, so I’m hopeful it might be a way to meet someone. Everyone tells me to try online dating, and in fairness, I do know multiple people that have met their partner online. I have tried multiple dating sites/apps over the years, including Tinder, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel, Match.com, and, most recently, OkCupid. Thankfully, things have started to open back up some, and I have joined a Dungeons and Dragons group, run by a couple.
So I’m thinking if you can stop believing that you’re the only one struggling. Realise that everyone has a bad dating story or two to share, that you can understand people better. It can feel a little perverse, but having too many options can actually work against you. This is what’s know as the Paradox of Choice; when you have a large number of options, it gets much harder to decide on any one thing. Our brains only have so much bandwidth, and if you overload your capacity, you end up not being able to make a choice or actually do anything. In those cases, it’s best to start to narrow things down and simplify your choices.
Put your email in the form to receive my 29-page ebook on healthy relationships. As an example, I grew up in a broken family where all members isolated themselves and we seldom communicated our emotions. As a result, I became highly sensitive to confrontation and any negative emotions of others. I became the consummate Nice Guy and for years struggled to assert myself in my relationships and around women. In fact, I objectified my sex life quite a bit and adopted some narcissistic behaviors in order to push me through some of these insecurities.
A recent Pew Survey found most people think that dating sucks and a lot of people have just stopped looking for love. It’s no wonder 28% of men under 30 haven’t had sex in the last year, an all-time high for men of that age group compared to anytime in history. Research shows that people simply aren’t dating, committing, or marrying as much. And, it’s not just the emotional side of relationships that are failing. Despite claims of a “hook up culture,” people just aren’t having as much sex as they used to either. Keep in mind, first dates can make people nervous and the first impression is not always the right one.